In the
Internet era everything changes, hobbies, love, even friends. It is not strange
anymore to speak with people we never seen before, to share our problems, to
ask for advice.
The online
friendship begins when two people bond and have things in common, simply like a
real friendship. The friends share photos, email each other, chat or hang out
eventually.
Someone
would ask how can we got a good advice from someone we don't know? Trust it or
not, our virtual friends sometimes can give us better advice than our real ones.
They don't
judge us, don't involve themselves in our troubles, no need to take a
side, so the outcome is they are more
objective.
For the
first time in the story of human friendship, social networks gave us the
opportunity to choose friends not by location or luck, but perfect friends by
rounding up people with similar interests, hobbies, sense of humor like ours. It need less time, and what is the most important any time is a good time for chat. Even thought most of this friendship will not be constructed in real it becomes
a source of fun and nice time.
For people
who are a little bit shy and need more time to make friendship in real, virtual
friendship is more comfortable. It affords them the choice to skip face to face talk, to choose topic to speak about, to say their opinion.
This is a
good side of virtual friendship, but virtual life brings always darker
side.
We cannot recognize who is a real person on the other side of the
screen, it can be totally opposite of what he/she represent.
People often
create a separate persona of themselves online, their real life often does not
have a connection with their virtual and they are completely different
characters.
Virtual friendship
introduced to each of us both sides of friendship.
It needs some time
to understand how to cover elements that may reverse against us and make
merriment of our sincere friendship.
Social networks
offer numerous people who wait to make use of the desperate need of a
friendship and fail to provide the true comfort of friendship.
But real friendship
also has its own dangers and disadvantages. We decide which kind of
friendship we like more- real or virtual?
The best way would
be to be careful, but to choose both, at the end it is the 21st century...
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