Each love starts as big,
wonderful, for women especially, they are more romantic, so when they found the
love they discover him as a love evermore. By the time first impression start
to fade, a prince from fantasy starts to be a human being, with all mistakes as
the rest and sometimes even more.
Bullies do not set out
to be suddenly like that, they begin first with small jealous incidents. At the
beginning of the relationship, it can be even cute, but by the time the
jealousy becomes bigger.
Violence
against the women do not need to be only physical, psychical torture can be
also painful. Usually, we ask ourselves why some women accept and tolerate
violence. The reason that these women accept torture by the fact that they are
usually dependent of these men is that they strongly believe that they
will change.
After every
insult or hit in the weak woman's body, they blame their victims for that, they
put the blame on the victim, slowly ruin her self-confidence. For a while bullies will be even nicer to their
victims, they will promise that this was the last time. By the time, bullies
will separate their victims from their friends, families so even when victims
start to think about leaving them as they will think that the world outside is
worse than their own. Women with lost self-confidence, who do not trust in
herself at all, will never leave their abuser.
Women must
understand when a man one time hit or bad insult her, he will do that
again. There is no sitting and crying, this kind of man must be left with no
turning back.
Each of these bullies will say that he cannot live without his woman, but the only reason why is that true is that the abuser need to blame somebody for their failure as a man and to feel powerful on the other side.
Violence against
women exist from beginning of our time, do not torture your woman, the real man
does not do that, the real man respects and love his woman. If any of you know
some woman who suffers violence in this moment, do not turn your head,
help her to leave and save her life. Do not let yourself become the victim,
there is so many nice, gentlemen in this world and we have only one life.
In last five years, 150 women was killed in Serbia, in first two months this year 5 women was killed in the family violence. Stop violence against women.
This text is written by Marijana Ignjatović any copyrighting are not permitted
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