VIRTUAL LOVE-BABY DO YOU LOVE ME?

                                               

 "It is not a Cupid arrow, it is a cursor ... I felt in love over the Internet ... "

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 Modern life has changed us, people are not social as they were before, we spend less time with our relatives, family, friends, we rather choose to spend the evening on the Internet than in some pub.        

When we have virtual life, virtual friends, send virtual gifts, play virtual games, logical effect is that soon we will have virtual love too.

Internet relationship starts to be growing phenomenon, people fall in love with people which they have never seen before, spend hours talking together, kissing screens, making plans for the future.

It is not strange anymore when we hear or see that someone has a relationship over the Internet. 

Since the expansion of social networks and web date sites started, more and more people looking for a partner online. People are lonelier than before, so Internet gives us opportunity to find a perfect partner, with interest and plans for life similar or exactly the same as ours.

But did we find a real person or somebody who just like to hang around?!

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First it starts with likes, short comments, then with talks, suddenly we realize that we spend more and more hours together, thinking on our virtual partner when we are not in front of the screen ...

Is that really love? A relationship like we wanted? What happened when we finally decide to take the next step?

We all know what next step means-seeing each other, we can’t spend an entire life just talking and imaging HOW OUR VIRTUAL LOVE IN REAL WILL LOOKS LIKE.

Then sad, but true, most of that perfect romantic relationship ends.

Sorry babe, I really loved you until the day I met you...

Why is that, what happened that our perfect love ended like it never existed? 

Like in real life people pretend to act as perfect love partners, but Internet gives the opportunity that fake person stays fake longer, to have more life, more fake faces, and I don't talk about physical appearance, that is some other story I talk about characteristics of fake personality ...

Psychologists say that crash lasts 3 or maximum 4 months after that is love. That can be true in a real relationship, in virtual that is a short time, we see only what the other side wants us to see, we don't see our virtual love in unprepared moments, and even every sentence that he/she writes or says to us is maybe already prepared, we just can’t spend so much quality time together like in real life.

WHAT TO DO THEN??

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When we fall in love with our virtual part, then all we can do is try to check everything about that person, I trust him/her is not enough, people lie, people pretend, some of them just for fun, some because he/she wants to hide something or in the worst case because they have serious mental problems. Checking our virtual lover before we meet him/her is not something wrong, we check our partners in real life so it is normal that we want to be sure that we found real person.

Love or crush is one thing that keeps us together, but honesty and trust will keep it on. If some of us is dishonest our love will last until we meet each other.

After all that time, if it fails, it is not end of the world, life is not only good, but bad things also, it was good while it lasted.

A relationship can end no matter is it real or virtual, so we move on and maybe next virtual love will be the one we were waiting for.

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