FAKE FRIENDS - KICK THEM OR NOT ?

Older people say, "Don't fear the enemy that attacks you, but the fake friend who hugs you".

Absolute truth.

 We all were abandoned by our friends so many times, but yet we try to believe that we will have one true friend.

We are social beings, can't live alone, we need family, lover, friends, but how we respond when we suddenly realize that our friends are fake?

Should we make believe that everything is OK, simply because we are so afraid to be alone, or should we say I don't need you in my life any longer!

It is the truth that some of our friends are just with us because they need something from us, or they just feel boring and they know that we always have time for them, but then when we need them they say to us, "oh sorry,  you choose a bad moment"?

Should we say it is OK, every single time, or should we stand for ourselves and tell them what is on our mind?

Or possibly just maybe we should ask them one simple question "why you are my friend if you are never here  when I need you?"

And there is the point where the fear starts to work. Does the truth hurt us, or if our friend makes lies do we feel better or even worse than before we asked?

How to break up with fake friends?

They are fake anyway, so should we just walk away or slowly show them that we are not fool anymore. They are winning anyway, we start to think what to say, if we are rude they will make rumors, they will be victims if we say nice will they accept what we say or they will just say," I really don't know what is your problem today."

The funniest thing is that they know one day they will need us again, so they will probably accept our decision and walk away, but just in the moment when we forget them they will come again in our life trying to be our friend again.

At that moment, just like destiny is playing with us, we need somebody, we had a tough day or something, and we say, oh I forgive you ... noooooooooo, didn't we learn anything???

Can't we just say I don't have time for you!

What is wrong with us, is it The end of the world, didn't we learn we can exist without them.

We must learn to say IT IS OVER, THANK YOU FOR YOUR FRIENDSHIP, BUT I DECIDED TO MOVE ON WITHOUT YOU.

If we do not do that we will be stick the rest of our lives with fake friends, writing, talking and reading about them.

Like Joan Jett  in her song says: 

Losin' friends, losin' friends Ya got nothin to lose Ya don't lose when you lose fake friends... 

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